Once in America, some immigrant women who had followed the customs of their countries have now gone with the flow.  They’ve become deceptive, greedy and very arrogant.  This kind of behavior is a total disengagement from their home cultures to the acculturation of anything goes to which they’ve assimilated.  So men are crying out: what the heck is wrong with women today?

Women in Western culture evoke the idea of being independent, educated and self-reliant.  But others view their new found world through the prism of evilness, deceit and bluffs.  It’s perversity in full swing due to greed, the evolution of time and the era of technology. 

Immigrant women today are culturally copycats.  They follow the wrong crowd and the course of time.   They have become difficult to acquiesce to social norms, i.e. submission, loyalty and family values.  They also change the traditional way of things:  no respect and no more love; virtue and true commitment are lost into the arena of games and businesses. So materialism has become the sine qua non of relationships.

For example, to the question, what does it take for women today to show love to their men?  An uneducated and unattractive woman replied: “personally, the man must give me a brand new car, a nice house and a lot of money.”  Then, another question: do all those demands reflect the sentiments of other women as well?  Her response was: “she is voicing her opinion in unanimity with all women.” Wow!  Men, beware!   

So a man who cannot afford the high price of even an ordinary woman is added to these statistics: in 2018, 40 to 50 percent of marriages in the United States ended in divorce.

Let’s take, for instance, men who go back to their home countries in search of love.  In most Third World countries, women fool men from the Diaspora into making them believe that they are in love with those men. 

Men often fall for that trap because those women have so meticulously crafted their so-called love to their male victims that for some time the ruse appears convincing.  Gosh!  It’s more like an April Fool’s prank when the male victims realize that they’ve been duped.

Those typical women often leave their men to join the growing number of greedy and dishonest women who set their sights on weak and financially stable men.  According to them, it is a fashion, a lifestyle of the time and the conduct of rigor.  .          

The expectations about who women should be and how they should live are lost in fantasy and materialism.  The means corrupt women use to reach their financial goals at the expense of men are always filled with ruse and deceit.

So women for leisure or for a casual relationship are more at reach than the few good ones, those with integrity and self-restraint who are ready for a lifetime commitment. 

Women are, indeed, the cornerstone of society.  As some of them go off course, others live up to their expectations.  They set their goals for a successful future with exemplary conduct and qualities.  They strive to be honest and genuine, driven and ambitious, classy and dignified.

A new survey finds three biggest priorities in a relationship: “honesty, communication and commitment.”

Without those attributes, the consequences of women living in the fast lane often result in their life ending in melancholy or tragedy and in their children becoming a burden to society.  Those women sometimes run the risk of becoming the casualties of their own lifestyles.

Weak or strong, men are susceptible of falling prey to predatory women they are duped to trust in relationships.  The fruit of decades of hard work earned by some men often evaporates in thin air due to the greed and the viciousness of those opportunistic wives or girlfriends.

Immigrating to a new country with a different culture should not change who someone is. But what can change today’s women and their bad practices is an admission to wrongdoing and a return to the old-fashion way.  Also by walking in the footsteps of some female icons, immigrants who once strayed away from their traditions may someday find redemption.